Elements: A red candle, a dollar coin, rue herbs, a bag made of red cloth, a red ribbon about an inch wide, wooden matches, olive oil.
Ritual: Cover the candle with olive oil and light it, placing the dollar coin right next to it.
Place the rue herbs in the bag and tie it up with the ribbon, very hard with two knots, one for the other person and one for yourself.
While the candle is still burning, raise the bag to your the chest, and say out loud, keeping your loved one in your thoughts: “As this candle burns, so burns my heart for this person, whom I want by my side for always, in a union full of happiness and joy.”
Let the candle burn out and carry the bag and the coin in a purse or pocket until your lover comes to you. Bury the remains of the candle in a plant pot or garden.